My understanding...

I must learn to accept my family for who they were and understand that, though they might be limited in certain areas, they all had good qualities that i could appreciate. Hating them for not being who i wanted them to be was only hurting me. Holding on to resentments, a wise person once said, is like taking poison and hoping the other person dies. I am not a wise person or forgiving one..but i really dont want myself to be unhappy cos it will only make those who cared for me and around me unhappy.